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Het is heel verleidelijk om bij moeilijke gesprekken te kijken naar wat er fout is gegaan, niets mis mee en je kunt daar veel van leren, maar sta ook eens stil bij wat er goed ging.

Ik hou van de vrouwen die het goed voor elkaar hebben, die lekker op woensdagmiddag met de kinderen zandkoekjes bakken, maar ik heb ook echt een zwak voor de vriendinnen bij wie het allemaal net even anders loopt. Die baby-met-man zit er waarschijnlijk niet in: ze is 40, de laatste 15 jaar liepen relaties voor geen meter en ze heeft bijna geen tijd meer om nu nog iemand te leren kennen die ook nog even snel een gezin wil.

Oordeel niet te snel op je voor-oordelen, wees oprecht benieuwd naar de ander en geef deze een eerlijke kans voorbij deze eerste indruk en wie weet stelt de ander de eerste indruk die hij/zij van jou had ook wel bij en kan er iets moois ontstaan....

Een volgende keer dat je die persoon tegenkomt zit het label er (onbewust) nog, ze plakken goed.

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